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It is with deep regret that the family and friends of Galba Bright wish to inform you of Galba’s untimely passing.

Galba Francis Adeyinka Bright, Human Resource Consultant and Author, died at his office on March 31 of natural causes, leaving his wife Sandra, numerous family members, friends, associates, readers and fans.

Out of respect, the Tune up your EQ website created by Galba will therefore be offline for a short period.

We thank you for your understanding at this time and appreciate the interest you have shown in Galba’s work and ideas.

Should you wish to post comments about the personal impact of Galba’s thoughts and writings, please feel free to click here or go to his blog.

The Service of Thanksgiving for the life of Galba Bright will be held at St. John’s Methodist Church, Montego Bay, Jamaica, at 1.00 pm on Sunday, April 19, followed by interment in Dovecot of St. James Memorial Park, Orange, St. James.

Grab A Free Emotional Intelligence Lesson From A Billionaire

March 14th, 2008 by Galba Bright

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George Soros, billionaire financier

The billionaire speculator, investor, philanthropist and political activist, George Soros made his fortune in the risky, intense world of arbitrage.

He feels financial opportunities in his back.

His son said:

“My father will sit down and give you theories to explain why he does this or that. But I remember seeing it as a kid and thinking at least half of this b**l.”

“I mean, you know the reason he changes his position on the market or whatever is because his back starts killing him. He literally goes into a spasm, and it’s this early warning sign.”

Malcom Gladwell told George Soros’ story in his book “Blink” and Robert K. Cooper did the same in “Get Out Of Your Own Way.”

In the book Fundamentals of Neuropsychology, scientists Kolb and Wishaw suggest that we have intelligence embedded in our spine:

“Clearly the spinal cord is not a passive channel for conducting information, but is actively involved in transposing that information through its own internal connections in a way that is consistent with life’s continually changing state.”

Does your intuition ever influence your financial decisions?

Are you rich enough to dismiss George Soros approach? ;)

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Episode 8, Emotional Intelligence Laughing Out Loud

March 8th, 2008 by Galba Bright

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Have you ever improved your emotional intelligence by laughing at yourself?

It was a hot steamy evening in South London, back in 1993. My long working day was finally coming to an end. I’d conducted numerous research surveys with some refugees.I’d listened hard and I recorded their answers faithfully. I was hot and tired.

One last interview and then I’d relax.

I met the last interviewee, raced through the survey instructions and started to ask him the questions. The inquisitive interviewee started to ask me to explain the purpose of the research again. I answered his questions.

The he asked me again.

I gave him a quick answer and pressed on. Time was short.

He was having none of that. His quizzing continued.This interviewee wanted HIS QUESTIONS answered. This last interview clearly wasn’t going according to plan. My usually patient approach vanished as quickly as a magician’s vanishing trick.

I reminded my new found “friend” that I was a qualified social researcher. I had lots of experience. I reeled off the names of the many organisations that I had worked with to press my point home.

Slowly he eyed me up and down.Then he offered his wise advice:

“just because you’ve done something for a long time, doesn’t mean that you know what you’re doing.”

He was absolutely right. I wasn’t particularly amused then, but 15 years on, the memory of an unforgettable, informal lesson in life still makes me laugh.

Have you ever improved your emotional intelligence by laughing at yourself?

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Emotional Intelligence: Don’t Leave Home Without It

March 5th, 2008 by Galba Bright

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Ray Hobby, Mensa member and Tune up your EQ reader

“My high IQ is an asset, but I have found that on its own it can be a liability.It needs the balance of EQ.”

In few words, Ray Hobby tells us why your emotional intelligence is a vital resource.

Why Emotional Intelligence Is Powerful

“EQ or [applied] Emotional Intelligence is not just important to me …it is essential !”

“A knife can be used to create a work of art or it can do great damage. Thus, it is equally so for intelligence. To truly make a work of art we can use a saw to cut the wood to length and then a fine chisel to fashion it further. The point is clear we do not just use one tool all the time.”

“My high IQ is an asset, but I have found that on its own it can be a liability. It needs the balance of EQ.”

How Ray’s High IQ Gives Him An “Edge”

” My intellectual intelligence enables me to think through my ideas”

How To Tune up Your EQ

“My emotional intelligence enables me to communicate those resultant ideas to other people - as well as accepting any critical response from them - to facilitate a route to a successful result right through to completion.”

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3 Compelling Reasons Why Leaders Must Improve Their EQ

” My personal motivation to study EI was that despite a very successful education career, I was aware that I had not always carried people along with my ideas.”

“As a consequence I considered what would happen if I wasn’t there to lead and realised that in my absence everything would stop.”

“As a truly effective manager and leader I knew that real success comes when the team continues under self-propelled motion when motivation is commonly understood, shared and, hence, holds a common belief with all the people involved”

“…and that is my motivation in my current role as a Management & Training Consultant.”


Why Emotional Intelligence Can Change The World

” It is my strong belief that it is applied Emotional Intelligence, not just the sterile ideals, that can make a significant contribution to the real development of the individual, […all] the team(s) to which we belong, the concept of effective leadership …and, indeed, to the entire organisation …anywhere.”

To Sum Up

Ray believes that his IQ is balanced by the efforts that he’s made to improve his emotional intelligence. This has helped him become a more effective and successful leader. I’m really grateful to him for sharing his IQ and EQ experiences with us.

This is the seventh article in this interview series. In the next article, I’ll describe the key points of Ray’s story.

A Question For You?

Do you ever leave home without your emotional intelligence?

Download the entire 5 question interview series with Ray Hobby in pdf format.


Read More of Ray Hobby’s Insights

Is EQ Old or New?
Is EQ Old or New?, Part 2

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Why A High IQ Can Be Bad For Your Health
Are You Sabotaged By Your IQ?
Enjoy Steve Olsen’s Understanding Intelligence-Best Resources List

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The Top Tip For Making The Most Of Your IQ

February 28th, 2008 by Galba Bright

If a Mensa member shared his top tip for helping you make the most of your IQ, would you want to know more?

Tune your EQ reader, Ray Hobby’s revelation is unusual. It’s sure to get you thinking. He also explains exactly what an emotional intelligence coach CAN’T do for you. Finally, Ray warns why you must approach the results of Emotional Intelligence assessments carefully.

Be sure to read this article at least twice. It’s well worth bookmarking as well. There are lots of valuable insights to help you improve your quality of life .

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Ray’s Top Tip

“Perhaps the only tip I would risk offering to anyone is embodied in all the foregoing – as an intrinsic component in ALL that I now do professionally.”

Please – Please – THINK about your situation – no one can do that for you, not even the ‘best’ coach […whoever and whatever s/he is].

” A ‘good’ coach will NOT provide all your answers to all of your problems, but s/he may ask [some of] the right questions to enable you to find ‘a route’ so that you find your own answers.”

“With integrity you will then be able to find some of the other questions to facilitate the route so you can find more “about your [real] self.”

“Interestingly, as I have already said, it is important to recognise that IQ levels are not the full story …BUT the use of the word ‘integrity’ is so very important.”

“IQ tests – particularly the best [Cattell and Wechsler, for instance] - are so well structured [after some 80 years or so of development] that they are not easy to fool or fiddle. The IQ value is usually pretty accurate and taken from the content – you either know a synonym or an antonym …or you don’t - or follow a syllogistic link …or you can’t. So, an IQ number ‘suggests’ a level of intellectual intelligence.”

EQ tests, however, can, to a certain extent, be fooled …unless they have a very strong 360 contribution from colleagues and close associates. (Ray’s argument is that a more reliable assessment includes the observations of other people, rather than relying on the information that the person being assessedprovides) . If you say that you help other people, for instance, when in reality you don’t care at all, then you will have an EQ rating that is not deserved, earned or realistic. “

“In consequence no genuine, personal development can take place. The questions examine your self knowledge and social relationships in various categories.”

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Ray’s Provocative Closing Statement

“An EQ number, as an end result, is therefore meaningless, since it is the further consideration of the components that provide the basis for personal development and improvement.”

So Ray says that if you want to make the most of your IQ, you must THINK.

Could Ray’s tip help you make the most of your IQ?

How do feel about what Ray says about emotional intelligence coaching and assessment?

Ray believes that a good coach can help you by asking the right emotional intelligence questions.

Read my 13 Emotional Intelligence Questions Every Leader Should Ask guest post 4 part series for Steve Roesler’s All Things Workplace Blog.


Part 1

Part 2
Part 3
Part 4

Download The 13 Emotional Intelligence Questions Every Leader Must Ask in pdf format

This is the sixth article in the interview series between Ray Hobby and myself. In the next article, Ray explains why Emotional Intelligence is important.

Download the entire 5 question interview series with Ray Hobby in pdf format.


More Insights From Ray Hobby

Is EQ Old or New?
Is EQ Old or New?, Part 2

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How To Successfully Sell Your Expertise With Empathy

February 6th, 2008 by Galba Bright

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Hands up if you’ve heard of Bob Marley. Reggae music made Jamaica a worldwide brand. How many other small islands are as well known? What has this got to do with selling and empathy? you ask.

Everything. Let me show you.

In 2000, a legendary reggae music retailer applied for a kiosk to sell reggae music CDs and DVDs at the Sangster International Airport departure lounge in Montego Bay. The competition for space was intense.

The airport managers rejected Tad’s application.

Disappointed, but not disheartened, Tad was convinced that his idea could work. He continued to nurture his concept.

Another Opportunity

In December 2003, MBJ Airports Limited invited new bids for kiosks. The newly appointed operators of the airport had ambitious plans. They would transform the airport into a world class facility and they needed world class retailers to make this happen.

Tad knew that thousands of businesses would apply. He also believed that he would succeed.

This time, he looked for help. He was referred to a consultant. When they met, Tad enthusiastically unfolded his bold vision. Retailers weren’t selling reggae music to tourists in a modern, accessible and friendly way. He knew what they needed.

Tad announced:

“Tads International will delight travellers by transforming their experience of reggae music in Jamaica.”

The retailer and the consultant agreed to work together.

Initial Apathy

The first challenge Tad faced was that he wasn’t even on MBJ’s radar. “Tad who?” was their response to his request for an initial meeting.

Yet he stuck with his plan.

He and the consultant eventually got the precious meeting (or was it airplay ;) The MBJ staff asked Tad several questions. Gradually the aiport manager’s scepticism began to fade. Tad remained confident.

MBJ asked him to produce a written outline proposal. They’d then decide whether to invite him to submit a formal application. Tad elaborated his ideas and the consultant produced a concept document.

Now MBJ was interested. They asked Tad Dawkins to submit a business plan. He conceptualised his Ultimate Reggae Experience.

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The consultant crunched the numbers.

But they didn’t stop there. First they showed MBJ what the kiosk would look like:

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Then they showcased Tad’s musical prowess. The consultant summarised the business plan and turned it into a slideshow.

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He added some of Tad’s music and burnt it to a CD. The CD would play automatically once it was loaded into a PC. It would play 3 times and then stop.

MBJ awarded Tads International Limited a three year licence in July 2004. The company commenced business in October 2004.

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Another Challenge

In 2006 MBJ announced a new bidding round. The company would dismantle the kiosks. Tad would have to win another competitive bidding round or close his business.

He was bullish. Tad had a track record of success with MBJ. Again, he worked with the consultant.

His resilience was rewarded the day before New Years Eve of 2006. The airport managers awarded his company a six year lease as the airport’s official retailer of reggae music CDs and DVDS. Celebrating his success, Tad Dawkins said:

“I’m delighted. I always knew my concept was a winner and I never lost heart, despite the challenges along the way.”

Tad wasn’t finished yet.

He used the shop as the platform for a thriving reggae music e-commerce venture and he’s taken advantage of technological developments to start his own production company.

5 Emotional Intelligence Lessons From Tad Dawkins

1. Tad has a high level of self-awareness. He knows his strengths and he plays to them. He knows his weaknesses and he gets expert help him get achieve great results.

2. He is extremely observant. Tad listens carefully to people before he seeks to persuade. Tad possessed the insight to present his business proposition in a way that fully met MBJ’s requirements. He stood in their shoes and adopted their point of view, not his own.

3. Tad is a very influential salesman because he actively looks for win-win relationships.

4. He doesn’t use hard sell tactics.

5. Tad has used his emotional intelligence, especially his empathy to successfully sell reggae music. He’s developed an influential brand.

Tad Dawkins gave me permission to publish his story.

Today, 6th February, is the 63rd anniversary of Bob Marley’s birth. February is Reggae Month in Jamaica.

I’m curious. Do you successfully sell your expertise by demonstrating empathy?

Is emotional intelligence just a set of academic concepts, or is it a resource you can use to power your way to business success?

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